Pirkei Avot §avot_04_18: Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar said: Do not try to appease your friend during his ho...

Rabbi Shimon ben Elazar said: Do not try to appease your friend during his hour of anger; Nor comfort him at the hour while his dead still lies before him; Nor question him at the hour of his vow; Nor strive to see him in the hour of his disgrace.